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Post by Deleted on Aug 10, 2016 8:13:58 GMT -5
I think this one is more apt Tim
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Post by Cairnsy780 on Aug 10, 2016 8:54:34 GMT -5
I've never made a single mistake in my life and always have my ducks in a row, so I can't pretend to understand what you're going through. However, doing nothing about it will only allow your situation to get worse. Seriously, get some help. There was a time in my life where I let situations beyond my control get me down. My Colts losing a game would ruin my whole weekend (this back when they regularly went 3-13), or plans falling through because someone else had something come up. Since then, I've learned to go with the flow. I do my best to make things work out as intended, but there are some things you just have zero control over. Let them go. Change what you can, accept what you can't, and learn to tell the difference. If TGC is no longer enjoyable for you, then move on. At least take a few weeks off, then try it again. If it's still no fun, then just give it up and find your next TGC, whatever that may be. Getting drunk is not the answer. It may make you temporarily forget your problems, but they'll still be there when you sober up. Last bit of advice: get help. You owe it to yourself. never made a single mistake in yer life WOW nice to meet u jesus ur one lucki feck i have made plenty but ur prob been sarcastic so NVM
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Post by yaters on Aug 10, 2016 10:38:09 GMT -5
If it helps, this game can get to me at times as well. Only on Monday did my wife bollock me for using too many expletives. I think you are just competitive and its hard not to play well all the time, it just so happens golf is the most infuriating of games. I work on a golf course and the amount of bad language and thrown clubs, divots in green, etc etc. I encounter is a lot. you are no different to these people. if you are more prone to losing your temper like me then when you are about to lose it then take 5, tell yourself to stop and think, go make a cup of tea of play something else, I learned that from having a daughter who is hard work at times! This is true, people get angry and frustrated with all types of things in real life, golf included. Some people handle it well and others don't. The difference is they don't start walking along with your foursome complaining and then sending you text messages about all their woes. Especially when they are, in comparison, a scratch golfer compared to the regular weekend hacker. It's fine to get mad at this game. I've watched plenty of streams where people really lose it. I recently saw one of the other top players grab a driver and blast a ball off the green after missing a short chip. My issue is the relentless posting and shout box behavior from Daniel every day. It gets old. People feel compelled to respond. Apology...everyone hates me...I hate this game...I should quit....I'm back again...Apology...I don't know what to do....I should quit....etc. I realize I am being harsh because the guy needs some serious professional help. That help isn't coming here and the attention seeking behavior and getting therapy from 100's of virtual friends here makes this place a lot less enjoyable. I personally wish Daniel the best, hope he can get a better perspective on life and this game, and hope to see him back here soon.
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Post by SweetTeeBag on Aug 10, 2016 11:01:31 GMT -5
If it helps, this game can get to me at times as well. Only on Monday did my wife bollock me for using too many expletives. I think you are just competitive and its hard not to play well all the time, it just so happens golf is the most infuriating of games. I work on a golf course and the amount of bad language and thrown clubs, divots in green, etc etc. I encounter is a lot. you are no different to these people. if you are more prone to losing your temper like me then when you are about to lose it then take 5, tell yourself to stop and think, go make a cup of tea of play something else, I learned that from having a daughter who is hard work at times! This is true, people get angry and frustrated with all types of things in real life, golf included. Some people handle it well and others don't. The difference is they don't start walking along with your foursome complaining and then sending you text messages about all their woes. Especially when they are, in comparison, a scratch golfer compared to the regular weekend hacker. It's fine to get mad at this game. I've watched plenty of streams where people really lose it. I recently saw one of the other top players grab a driver and blast a ball off the green after missing a short chip. My issue is the relentless posting and shout box behavior from Daniel every day. It gets old. People feel compelled to respond. Apology...everyone hates me...I hate this game...I should quit....I'm back again...Apology...I don't know what to do....I should quit....etc. I realize I am being harsh because the guy needs some serious professional help. That help isn't coming here and the attention seeking behavior and getting therapy from 100's of virtual friends here makes this place a lot less enjoyable. I personally wish Daniel the best, hope he can get a better perspective on life and this game, and hope to see him back here soon. Was that me off the green? I know I've done it
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Post by yaters on Aug 10, 2016 11:05:21 GMT -5
This is true, people get angry and frustrated with all types of things in real life, golf included. Some people handle it well and others don't. The difference is they don't start walking along with your foursome complaining and then sending you text messages about all their woes. Especially when they are, in comparison, a scratch golfer compared to the regular weekend hacker. It's fine to get mad at this game. I've watched plenty of streams where people really lose it. I recently saw one of the other top players grab a driver and blast a ball off the green after missing a short chip. My issue is the relentless posting and shout box behavior from Daniel every day. It gets old. People feel compelled to respond. Apology...everyone hates me...I hate this game...I should quit....I'm back again...Apology...I don't know what to do....I should quit....etc. I realize I am being harsh because the guy needs some serious professional help. That help isn't coming here and the attention seeking behavior and getting therapy from 100's of virtual friends here makes this place a lot less enjoyable. I personally wish Daniel the best, hope he can get a better perspective on life and this game, and hope to see him back here soon. Was that me off the green? I know I've done it HAHA - no it wasn't Tim. It was another guy slightly better than you in WGR rankings. I won't name names, but he is currently in Rio and might walk away with a medal. Don't Overstate the importance of a good short game!
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Post by DoubtfulObelisk on Aug 10, 2016 11:05:30 GMT -5
This is true, people get angry and frustrated with all types of things in real life, golf included. Some people handle it well and others don't. The difference is they don't start walking along with your foursome complaining and then sending you text messages about all their woes. Especially when they are, in comparison, a scratch golfer compared to the regular weekend hacker. It's fine to get mad at this game. I've watched plenty of streams where people really lose it. I recently saw one of the other top players grab a driver and blast a ball off the green after missing a short chip. My issue is the relentless posting and shout box behavior from Daniel every day. It gets old. People feel compelled to respond. Apology...everyone hates me...I hate this game...I should quit....I'm back again...Apology...I don't know what to do....I should quit....etc. I realize I am being harsh because the guy needs some serious professional help. That help isn't coming here and the attention seeking behavior and getting therapy from 100's of virtual friends here makes this place a lot less enjoyable. I personally wish Daniel the best, hope he can get a better perspective on life and this game, and hope to see him back here soon. Was that me off the green? I know I've done it Nah, it was some carp who also told the game to *ahem* fellatiate him. What a lack of class.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 10, 2016 11:14:38 GMT -5
There's nothing quite like the feeling of twatting a driver off the green
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Post by Brighttail on Aug 10, 2016 11:24:11 GMT -5
If it helps, this game can get to me at times as well. Only on Monday did my wife bollock me for using too many expletives. I think you are just competitive and its hard not to play well all the time, it just so happens golf is the most infuriating of games. I work on a golf course and the amount of bad language and thrown clubs, divots in green, etc etc. I encounter is a lot. you are no different to these people. if you are more prone to losing your temper like me then when you are about to lose it then take 5, tell yourself to stop and think, go make a cup of tea of play something else, I learned that from having a daughter who is hard work at times! This is true, people get angry and frustrated with all types of things in real life, golf included. Some people handle it well and others don't. The difference is they don't start walking along with your foursome complaining and then sending you text messages about all their woes. Especially when they are, in comparison, a scratch golfer compared to the regular weekend hacker. It's fine to get mad at this game. I've watched plenty of streams where people really lose it. I recently saw one of the other top players grab a driver and blast a ball off the green after missing a short chip. My issue is the relentless posting and shout box behavior from Daniel every day. It gets old. People feel compelled to respond. Apology...everyone hates me...I hate this game...I should quit....I'm back again...Apology...I don't know what to do....I should quit....etc. I realize I am being harsh because the guy needs some serious professional help. That help isn't coming here and the attention seeking behavior and getting therapy from 100's of virtual friends here makes this place a lot less enjoyable. I personally wish Daniel the best, hope he can get a better perspective on life and this game, and hope to see him back here soon. I believe this happened during the WGC match play Oh and to rub salt in the wounds he lost that hole 10 strokes to his 11
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Post by Bacon on Aug 10, 2016 15:51:21 GMT -5
I've never made a single mistake in my life and always have my ducks in a row, so I can't pretend to understand what you're going through. However, doing nothing about it will only allow your situation to get worse. Seriously, get some help. There was a time in my life where I let situations beyond my control get me down. My Colts losing a game would ruin my whole weekend (this back when they regularly went 3-13), or plans falling through because someone else had something come up. Since then, I've learned to go with the flow. I do my best to make things work out as intended, but there are some things you just have zero control over. Let them go. Change what you can, accept what you can't, and learn to tell the difference. If TGC is no longer enjoyable for you, then move on. At least take a few weeks off, then try it again. If it's still no fun, then just give it up and find your next TGC, whatever that may be. Getting drunk is not the answer. It may make you temporarily forget your problems, but they'll still be there when you sober up. Last bit of advice: get help. You owe it to yourself. never made a single mistake in yer life WOW nice to meet u jesus ur one lucki feck i have made plenty but ur prob been sarcastic so NVM No "probably" about it. That was definitely sarcasm. Good eye!
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Post by Deleted on Aug 10, 2016 15:55:58 GMT -5
People who think i do this for attention have no idea what i am going through.
I feel like i need to vent somewhere and it happens to be the forums. I don't intend to offend anyone and certainly don't it for the bloody attention. That is just sad in every way.
Sitting here and being bored out of my skin sometimes causes me to lash out on the forums and i can't help it and i understand i need to find something to keep me occupied while i have free time but that is easier said than done.
Thanks again for all the advice guys. I appreciate it, i really do!
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Post by Airik3333 on Aug 10, 2016 15:58:26 GMT -5
People who think i do this for attention have no idea what i am going through. I feel like i need to vent somewhere and it happens to be the forums. I don't intend to offend anyone and certainly don't it for the bloody attention. That is just sad in every way. Sitting here and being bored out of my skin sometimes causes me to lash out on the forums and i can't help it and i understand i need to find something to keep me occupied while i have free time but that is easier said than done. Thanks again for all the advice guys. I appreciate it, i really do! Sounds like you need a job.. The word for the day Is J O B.. Job..
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Post by Deleted on Aug 10, 2016 15:59:04 GMT -5
People who think i do this for attention have no idea what i am going through. I feel like i need to vent somewhere and it happens to be the forums. I don't intend to offend anyone and certainly don't it for the bloody attention. That is just sad in every way. Sitting here and being bored out of my skin sometimes causes me to lash out on the forums and i can't help it and i understand i need to find something to keep me occupied while i have free time but that is easier said than done. Thanks again for all the advice guys. I appreciate it, i really do! Sounds like you need a job.. The word for the day Is J O B.. Job.. I do have a job....
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Post by Airik3333 on Aug 10, 2016 16:01:21 GMT -5
If you have a J O B then why are you worried about your career at TGC so much ? Last time I checked the TGC Career pays squat..
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Post by Deleted on Aug 10, 2016 16:02:27 GMT -5
If you have a J O B then why are you worried about your career at TGC so much ? Last time I checked the TGC Career pays squat.. I am very competitive and what to do great at everything i do no matter what it is.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 10, 2016 16:10:19 GMT -5
You'll never be as good as Sweeney Dan. We all learned that a while ago and we are happier for it.
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