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Post by TTTMFJ2K on Apr 6, 2018 13:33:53 GMT -5
You can't pin this on Tyler. He's has the right to voice his opinion in the same respect that neon had the right to withdraw himself if he felt it was getting to much. We all have the right to feel disappointed that something we enjoyed ended so suddenly. We don't know what other factors are involved outside the forum and game. Best course of action for all would be to take responsibility for your own part in this, I missed a few deadlines myself so I'm partly responsible. Blame and fault need to be left in the past where they belong. There's no point rehashing it all looking for a culprit to pin it on just accept the situation for what it is and move on. Thank you I appreciate it.
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Post by TTTMFJ2K on Apr 6, 2018 13:34:25 GMT -5
Anyone who was involved in his events in TGC1 towards the end of "Loughrey" (sp?) could see this coming, it's his pattern - overextend, over-commit, get frustrated, take a relatively benign comment and turn it into a huge ordeal used to justify deleting his account and dropping off the face of the TGCT earth. If I remember correctly, last time it was Irving R. Levine 's comments that seemed to get under his skin and blow up way out of proportion, but that's been a while now so I could be wrong. Yes, this is his pattern many times. Then he revels in the people saying how great he is, how they want him back, starting threads about how horrible the person is that said something as horrible as "I don't like the course selection" and how Loughrey is so wonderful, etc. He's a narcissist and I didn't even realize he was back under a new pseudonym. Unfortunately with the number of new members we get all the time, he can keep making new accounts, doing this thing and then pulling the Hurt Feelings Fly Away bit over and over and over... Wow. That makes me upset..
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Post by Deleted on Apr 6, 2018 14:05:28 GMT -5
Yes, this is his pattern many times. Then he revels in the people saying how great he is, how they want him back, starting threads about how horrible the person is that said something as horrible as "I don't like the course selection" and how Loughrey is so wonderful, etc. He's a narcissist and I didn't even realize he was back under a new pseudonym. Unfortunately with the number of new members we get all the time, he can keep making new accounts, doing this thing and then pulling the Hurt Feelings Fly Away bit over and over and over... Wow. That makes me upset.. Don't let it bother you. He's not worth it.
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Post by TTTMFJ2K on Apr 6, 2018 14:18:00 GMT -5
Wow. That makes me upset.. Don't let it bother you. He's not worth it. True, it’s frustrating to know I got bashed in that thread for something so small. But like you said can’t let it bother me
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Post by CiB0RG on Apr 6, 2018 14:57:30 GMT -5
Don't let it bother you. He's not worth it. True, it’s frustrating to know I got bashed in that thread for something so small. But like you said can’t let it bother me Yea man don't worry about it. I looked back at posts you wrote in the societies and I didn't see anything out of line. I've seen Chris get offended before when people say they didn't like a particular course he picked. I'm not sure why he gets so offended by it. I guess it's just one of his bugaboos. This time around I think he was already pretty much at his boiling point in stress since he was trying to run 3 large community tournaments at once all by himself and lots of people were not meeting deadlines. I think hearing that some people were not fans of the courses he picked was his last straw. You were unfortunate enough to be the one who he kind of dropped the bomb on. I did see others say they did not enjoy courses as well. Just move on from this. It's not your fault. Guy just bit off more than he could chew.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 6, 2018 17:16:27 GMT -5
I don't play community events anymore because of this guy's actions. Soured me that much on the whole community tournament thing. At least with the TGC ones you know they're going to continue.
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Post by smytty66 on Apr 6, 2018 18:26:05 GMT -5
If Loughrey and Ninja are one and the same, that explains everything. If I had known it was the same person, I never would’ve rejoined the state championship. This is the third time he’s started and stopped everything mid-run because of a comment. Unreal.
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Post by bogeyman on Apr 6, 2018 18:31:03 GMT -5
Check out new thread "PANDORA 2 - RESURRECTED?"
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Post by TTTMFJ2K on Apr 6, 2018 18:33:47 GMT -5
If Loughrey and Ninja are one and the same, that explains everything. If I had known it was the same person, I never would’ve rejoined the state championship. This is the third time he’s started and stopped everything mid-run because of a comment. Unreal. I don’t feel bad at all now. That’s absurd
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Post by jacobkessler on Apr 6, 2018 18:46:06 GMT -5
If Loughrey and Ninja are one and the same, that explains everything. If I had known it was the same person, I never would’ve rejoined the state championship. This is the third time he’s started and stopped everything mid-run because of a comment. Unreal. They are. Or were, since he’s gone for now.
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Post by xEB50x on Apr 6, 2018 19:49:52 GMT -5
That explains everything....it’s Pablo’s fault!
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Post by CiB0RG on Apr 6, 2018 20:23:39 GMT -5
That explains everything....it’s Pablo’s fault! yup #blamepablo
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Post by TTTMFJ2K on Apr 7, 2018 12:17:26 GMT -5
I would like to blame the Cleveland Browns, Dallas Cowboys, Justin Bieber, and Patrick Reed.
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Post by moneyman273 on Apr 7, 2018 18:47:20 GMT -5
Ok, first of all, you weren’t alone in the complaints. Many others including you were incessant about it. What’s lost on many guys on his events, especially the new guys, is the impossible amount of work he puts into these. Past iterations were widely successful. But too many lately showed no appreciation for his efforts, and too many simply didn’t adhere to the established guidelines, especially deadlines. So you can’t blame his frustration with the masses. He provided an amazing service at no real cost to any of us. Yet a good portion of players simply abused it. No surprise there were removals. To my bud Jason, I wish you great luck with your new endeavor, but for the record, you will encounter the same issues Ninja did. Just be ready for it. Looking at his thread, one could easily say he’s overextending as well, so it’s clearly not just a Ninja thing. Finally, you all should get both sides of the story before spouting off. I have to admit I’m very disappointed by what I’m reading here. You’re giving TGCTours a bad name. All good here Mark. I just try to, and am very successful at getting along with everyone. I'm not sure if my ideas will pan out. I sure hope they will. I have much respect for Ninja and he was and has always been cordial to me. I've observed a tremendous amount of personalities on these boards and posts can be taken the wrong way at times I'm sure. Your stories are always fantastic! I feel very confident that a few of us will get some great community tournaments rolling.
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Post by TTTMFJ2K on Apr 7, 2018 18:50:32 GMT -5
It’s just the fact that people still back his tournaments up when, from what I have heard, has done this multiple of times. I assume he and several others bashed me on that thread. But I have zero ounce of sympathy now for what happened.
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